HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF UNCONDITIONALLY!!

First of all self love is not selfish, it is entirely about your own perception of yourself. It is making sure you are filled with love before you set yourself to share it.  We all got one life and it's up to us to live the best out of it,  loving ourselves unconditionally and accepting our being without any reservations is the best gift we can ever offer to ourselves. Below is how best we can live and love us;
   1.SELF AWARENESS. Knowing who we truly are is key no1,lets make time to discover what our talents are,  weaknesses,  gifts, insecurities etc because when we discover these things,we learn to deal with them and to improve them. Also I've noticed that no one can use your features against you if you know them.  If you love yourself much enough to know  who you truly are inside and out,  you won't need any one else to validate  you.
   2.INVEST IN YOURSELF. Let me tell you this,  anything that helps with your personal growth and improvement is worth investing in. We always blame it to our small bank accounts but we can still save for these things that make us happy.  Go for a manicure( which doesn't to be so exotic), buy a nice book,  save for a new better bed,  start up on a skin an body routine. This will turn your life to a positive  spot and it will change how you view yourself.
   3.LET TOXIC PEOPLE GO. I know you must be tired of hearing this but trust me it is the truth. Let the people who make you feel bad about  yourself out of the way. These are the people who occasionally remind you to lose weight otherwise you're ugly, people who give lame excuses for not coming to your resque when you need them,  those who discuss your affairs behind your back.  These people make you feel like you ain't worthy of greatness and when you sweep them out,  you create room for those who will cherish your being genuinely.
   4.THOSE DREAMS. Chase those dreams, never let go of things that ignite your soul. Remember we don't choose these dreams, they choose us so make sure your dreams and goals are your own and only do it to prove to yourself not your friends , partner, or even for fame.  Things might not work out for you right now but they will eventually do and you will be the happiest. Remember you can conquer the universe if you put your mind to it.
   5.BE GRATEFUL .Alot of us only say 'thank you' when we receive big things,  we ungrateful for the air we breathe,  for the friends we got, for the love, for the opportunities etc. We have completely forgotten that gratitude is a strong emotion and there is no way we can love ourselves to the fullest if we are ungrateful. If we constantly appreciate the things we receive from God and from people, our souls will always be filled with blessings and that's the purest of love.
     *You shouldn't let people decide how much you must love yourself or how far you must go. We can't expect others to love us,  treat us well,  appreciate us if we can't do ourselves these favours. You are the only person who can validate yourself so do not gives anyone else this power. Self love isn't bad at all it's working towards improving ourselves every single  moment.
  Am always open  for a chit chat if you found this helpful or you just want to talk; shadiatendo@gmail.com

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