AM I WRONG TO STAND OUT?(CONFIDENCE)

       Being confident is an entry that collects  the body, emotions, personality, work etc and am here to tell you that no one has it all together. We all stumble and fall some times, Some of us have denied ourselves the chance to do certain things  because society says they're not good for our colour, body build, education levels, height, language and this is so on us because guess what? nothing can make us feel inferior without our permission. We can't look for confidence outside of our shell because it was built with and we only got to find it. I got you some 5 ways that you are going to work it up to the top;

   1.SELF AWARENESS. I know this sounds like a song on replay but it's the way to go. When you figure out your strengths and weaknesses it gets easier for you to boost them. Don't forget that your talents may work out just finfine for you if you put them to good use. Being fully aware of who you really are, what you can't change about yourself, your achievements, your mistakes is a good way to step up your  confidence ladder. Take time off and lost these things down, you will be surprised to discover how much of a worthy person you truly are.
  2.KICK OUT THE COMPARISON.  I have realised over the past years that alot of times we fail to stand out because we constantly think we are not good enough in relation to other people and the sad truth is those other people too think they ain't good enough. Lets admit the fact that there is always going to be someonsor something better, that's the fact, there is always going to be someone more beautiful, more talented, more slim, more something but the trick is to be comfortable and knowing that there is always going to be one version of you and that's you.
      3.POSITIVITY WORKS. Being confident is about affirming yourself. Don't wait for someone to tell you how stunning you are when you can say that to your pretty self. Make this an everyday routine to appreciate yourself. Believe that you can and shout it  out loud,  stop waiting for men to be your affirmative machines, be the person who makes yourself feel good about your choices and desires, support yourself never the less and you will witness how your confidence grows.
  4.BE EXCLUSIVE. In the search of people that will make us feel sure about ourselves, we end up falling for the first. There are some people who clearly don't deserve us therefore we should  be mindful about who we spend our time with. Be exclusive with your ideas, love, time and happiness. Give yourself to people who root God you, who genuinely love you, spend your time on your dreams,  work hard for what you want because at the end of the day these are the thinga that will make you sure of who you are.
  5.EMBRACE YOUR IMPERFECTIONS. Accepting that you are flawed is paramount, we all are so don't try to hide your imperfections in paint. We are humans so we ought to have imbalances here and there. We got stuff we can't change that we simply got to accept and for those we can let's work on there improvement otherwise understanding that you are imperfectly perfect is awesome. You don't owe no one a perfect body,  family, job or a perfect life. Do you for you.
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